often make mistakes when we wrong, but the biggest mistakes are when we are sure that we are right. It is unfortunate but true that many friends and families are torn apart without the need because a person is sure to be right. Often the person we are. Sorry sometimes mistakenly think that as our motivation to speak and oppose the other person is correct and only then "let the chips fall in place, do the right thing ..." It sounds so proper and correct posture. But what we learn is that often we are completely blind to our true motivations. We honestly and sincerely believe that our motives are pure and fair but, in truth, somewhere deep in our hearts, what drives us to generate separation and speak ill of another person is a negative feeling quite ignorant. The Kabbalists teach us that we are blind, the only difference is that some of us know and others do not. They use the parable of two blind men, you know you're blind and the other somehow thinks he can see. The first walk with caution, always feeling the way carefully before taking the next step. But the other man always walks quickly and safely, falling into wells, hitting all sorts of things and blaming external things hurt. Never, never once thought to be blind and therefore should be more careful while walking through life. Of Just as we are blind in one or another form. The only difference between a person who will be able to create a life of fullness and less pain, and a person who will continue on the path of pain is that the person who knows who is blind will be careful with their actions. If we are blind to our blindness then we'll open passage through life hurting, falling from and always blaming others for our pain. The most important lesson is to always say: "I can be wrong." "I know that annoying guy is completely wrong, and should lash out at him ... but I can be wrong." "I know that members of my family deserves punishment for what I did ... but I can be wrong. " "I know my friend in a terrible act against me ... but I can be wrong." Therefore, we will not act based on these things that we think are true, it is possible that our true motivation is not so pure, and maybe that is what is pushing us to act in anger, and separation from a place of selfishness. "I want to create pain and separation if I am wrong in my motivation?" `. Throughout history many great souls terrible mistakes, thinking that their actions were honest and true, while they were blind to their true motivations. We should all wake up to this understanding. We do not know how we are blind, therefore we should never act in ways that cause pain and separation in others. No matter how clearly we think we see the situation, no matter how right we believe we are, we never know, we could be wrong.
I may be wrong
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